Till recently, I thought 'incompatible' was bad /wrong in a relation....if you are incompatible , you cannot make the realtionship work.
It isn't really.Look into your most successful realtionships, are the two of you totally compatible ?? maybe not , on the contrary, chances are that the two of you are not.What makes the difference is what you do with the differences!!
You accept them , love them , sometimes convert them into positives for the relation by complementing each other. You don't judge the person for way he/she does things differently ...you become aware of the differences and work around them ....you may have already done that if you notice your 'easy/happy ' relations.
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Darling to my world of definitions this is not compatibility or otherwise- this is knowing and acknowledging and giving love:) So Rumi the great says and I totally believe in this kind of 'incompatibility' too:)
ReplyDeleteThanks mee...Honestly, i did tend to dismiss people who were my complete opposites...am more appreciative of diversity now!!You are so right ...a loving, compassionate view 'dissolves' differences and a certain 'oneness'emerges.
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